Thursday, July 15, 2010

Link Thursday: 25 Fascinating Love Facts

Hey everyone

I was browsing the file of saved webpages and thought this one would be light and entertaining, as well as helpful. Most of us write romance, so here are some interesting little tidbits that could help you pen a better love story. Or, it could just be something nice to know!

The article originally appeared on MSN Realtionships and is written by Laura Schaefer. Since I saved this page a few weeks ago, I cannot find it's original link but a search on the MSN Relationships web page should bring it up.

Some of this stuff is amazing, like #10, the women of the Tiwi tribe.

Some are pretty much confirmation of coupledom - # 13 & 23. Yup, 'old' couple do end up like a pair of comfy slippers (personal experience speaking, sadly...).

Some is downright funny - #20, anyone?

And some pertains a lot to the modern, single woman out there (your heroine when she starts the story!!) - #3, 12, 22.

Others... eye-opening! :)

See for yourself!


25 Fascinating Love Facts

Love is mysterious, fascinating, and when you find it with the right person, there's nothing better. Here are 25 surprising love facts to puzzle over and embrace.

By Laura Schaefer

Love is a many-splendored thing … and a very surprising thing, too. As if you needed proof of that, here are 25 funny little facts about love. Study them, scratch your head over them, and share them with someone you fancy.

1. Men who kiss their wives in the morning live five years longer than those who don't.

2. People are more likely to tilt their heads to the right when kissing instead of the left (65 percent of people go to the right!)

3. When it comes to doing the deed early in the relationship, 78 percent of women would decline an intimate rendezvous if they had not shaved their legs or underarms.

4. Feminist women are more likely than other females to be in a romantic relationship.

5. Two-thirds of people report that they fall in love with someone they've known for some time vs. someone that they just met.

6. There's a reason why office romances occur: The single biggest predictor of love is proximity.

7. Falling in love can induce a calming effect on the body and mind and raises levels of nerve growth factor for about a year, which helps to restore the nervous system and improves the lover's memory.

8. Love can also exert the same stress on your body as deep fear. You see the same physiological responses — pupil dilation, sweaty palms, and increased heart rate.

9. Brain scans show that people who view photos of a beloved experience an activation of the caudate — the part of the brain involving cravings.

10. The women of the Tiwi tribe in the South Pacific are married at birth.

11. The "Love Detector" service from Korean cell phone operator KTF uses technology that is supposed to analyze voice patterns to see if a lover is speaking honestly and with affection. Users later receive an analysis of the conversation delivered through text message that breaks down the amount of affection, surprise, concentration and honesty of the other speaker.

12. Eleven percent of women have gone online and done research on a person they were dating or were about to meet, versus seven percent of men.

13. Couples' personalities converge over time to make partners more and more similar.

14. The oldest known love song was written 4,000 years ago and comes from an area between the Tigris and Euphrates Rivers.

15. The tradition of the diamond engagement ring comes from Archduke Maximillian of Austria who, in the 15th century, gave a diamond ring to his fiancée, Mary of Burgundy.

16. Forty-three percent of women prefer their partners never sign "love" to a card unless they are ready for commitment.

17. People who are newly in love produce decreased levels of the hormone serotonin — as low as levels seen in people with obsessive-compulsive disorder. Perhaps that's why it's so easy to feel obsessed when you're smitten.

18. Philadelphia International Airport finished as the No. 1 best airport for making a love connection, according to an online survey.

19. According to mathematical theory, we should date a dozen people before choosing a long-term partner; that provides the best chance that you'll make a love match.

20. A man's beard grows fastest when he anticipates sex.

21. Every Valentine's Day, Verona, the Italian city where Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet took place, receives around 1,000 letters addressed to Juliet.

22. When we get dumped, for a period of time we love the person who rejected us even more, says Dr. Helen Fisher of Rutgers University and author of Why We Love. The brain regions that lit up when we were in a happy union continue to be active.

23. Familiarity breeds comfort and closeness … and romance.

24. One in five long-term love relationships began with one or both partners being involved with others.

25. OK, this one may not surprise you, but we had to share it: Having a romantic relationship makes both genders happier. The stronger the commitment, the greater the happiness!

Laura Schaefer is the author of Man with Farm Seeks Woman with Tractor.


From Mauritius with love,



Sandy said...

I think I have this right, but I believe Laura Schaefer is also, author, Laura Abbot. I should check this to make sure but maybe you can, Z. Laura Schaefer was originally a school teacher in Wichita, KS and then later in the K.C. area. She wrote for super romance at Harlequin.

Very interesting blog.


Chicki Brown said...

I love #3 and #20 is just about hormones ...

Funny and fascinating, Zee.

Unknown said...

Hey, I live in Philly. Let me know if you ladies stop by for a love connection. We'll have coffee. LOL.

Zee Monodee said...

Hey Sandy
Thanks for the note, I'll have to check this out.
Glad you found it interesting.

Zee Monodee said...

Yup, I did think it was fascinating too. Must be why I kept on to the link! It's sometimes little tidbits like this that give a different dimension to writing romance.
#20 just hormones... With guys you never know! :)

Zee Monodee said...

Lol Charli!
The love connection comment made me think of the movie Love Actually (one of my absolute faves!). Heathrow airport was the start and end point of the story, where all the couples/lovers meet.
Thanks for coming over and commenting!